When a girl gets engaged slowly her attention and consciousness becomes weaker towards the parental side gets pulled towards her in-law’s home. She dreams about her ‘beloved’ and her interest in the happening around the in law’s home increases. In this way her ‘love-link’ with her ‘beloved’ firmer. Her mind, heart, her whole self’ automatically dwells upon the ‘;remembering’ or ‘simran’ of her beloved.

This ‘life of simran’ is the ‘meditative’ level. In this level she is spontaneously and unknowingly absorbed with her ‘hand at work and mind with her ‘mate’. The girl in her parental home continues to discharge all the responsibilities in this emotional state.

Some people express doubt that if they get absorbed in doing simran, who will do the worldly work.

This practical example of an engaged girl in her parental home is a suitable answer to these doubters.

When a seeker partakes of ‘Amrit of Khande dha Bata’ he becomes a disciple of the guru and his ‘pull’ or ‘love’ towards the house of the guru continues to increase.

As a gursikh continues to associate with the company of ‘the sadh sangat’ (evolved souls), and through simran practices the shabad (the word), his consciousness enjoying affection, love- being an embodiment of love gets pulled by the chord of divine love. This chord of love does not lose its tensions nor does it break.

1.1 I have contracted love with my Beloved.
The Lord of Wealth has drawn me with such a string that by breaking, it breaks not, and by letting it go, it goes not. 827